Be true to yourself. You cannot be truly satisfied with what energy you receive until and unless you are true to yourself to begin with. If you are angry, say it. If you are sad, say it. If you are disappointed, say it. Try to channel thoughts into simple words. And this isn't just restricted to negative emotions. This applies to everything that you feel or think. The longer you hold it inside, the more piled up it is gonna be. If you don't find someone to say anything to, see that's where the social network becomes useful. They aren't there for pretending to have a good life. Nor are they meant to influence your mind with what posts you see. Those posts don't define your life, you do. You cannot be true to the ones you love if you cannot be true to yourself. Moreover the first person whom you should love is yourself. Make yourself a priority. You won't be able to hold a grudge or hug anyone or abuse someone or love someone if you are not up and about. Take care of yourself first and whatever you want will eventually happen.
Success isn't what you achieve in life. Success isn't what you have been thinking about all along. Success is a feeling. A feeling of completeness, content, satisfaction you get when you learn to accept and adapt to things and don't let them drive you. The feeling when you know that you have got something you can count on and have invested a lot of time and interest in it.
Doing your best and giving it your all doesn't always mean things will turn out the way you want them to. Sometimes things just go bad. So, even the slightest of smiles you get while watching the sky is a success. Cherish it.
No matter how much hard work you put in or think you deserve this because you have worked hard for it and done things for it others haven't, it still won't happen if it doesn't work out. You cannot make people think the same because they will have their own perception.
Everyone says you should talk about things that trouble you, bother you or make you feel mentally troubled but most of us don't and no one talks about that. We don't speak about the troubles because over the time we have developed a sense of attachment to it. We feel connected to those troubles. It has eventually become a part of us. We don't share because if we do it'd make it all go away and we would be empty again. We don't fear going down, we fear that we will be left vacant again. It is loneliness that is the scariest of them all. And people like us make use of anything to fill that vacancy and attempt to banish the loneliness. This is why we have a far better relationship with things and emotions than with people.
We don't share because deep down we like the feeling of being troubled as the very reason of the uneasiness, the restlessness has been the one companion in our darkest times we never expected to be. It is the part of us which we subconsciously decide to groom in the process of getting better. And the truth is we never get better. We find a way to live with it. Embrace it like the old friend and the company it is. We never get past it. We instead learn to walk with it and slowly suppress it as we move along giving space to that one new feeling of trouble to live with. The time we take to move on from things that trouble us is actually when we manage to accept and sink them deep into us. Their presence is the only thing that keeps you going. You think you beat them while you just keep them aside for utilisation in the future. You cherish and remember them as they have helped you grow. The darker the times, the more potential to grow. It is not just why people say that failures teach you things success never can. When people say that it is because they have learned from the darkness within themselves. We shouldn't celebrate successes, we should rather appreciate and raise a toast to failures and troubles. They are the real ones.
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